--- title: "Embrace The Present" id: "2829" type: "post" slug: "full-embrace" published_at: "2012-07-11T14:15:54+00:00" modified_at: "2012-07-15T04:52:44+00:00" url: "https://johnpoelstra.com/full-embrace/" markdown_url: "https://johnpoelstra.com/full-embrace.md" excerpt: "How often do we lose out on the present moment by trying to preserve it for later? I think we often lose twice–we miss out on the present moment by trying to preserve it, and then the quality of what......" taxonomy_category: - "Productivity" --- [Skip to the content](#site-content) [John Poelstra](https://johnpoelstra.com) ### Bringing order to chaos and clarity to confusion - [One Conversation](https://johnpoelstra.com/) - [Podcast](https://johnpoelstra.com/category/podcast/) - [Coaching for Directors](https://johnpoelstra.com/coach/) - [About](https://johnpoelstra.com/about/) Toggle search field - [One Conversation](https://johnpoelstra.com/) - [Podcast](https://johnpoelstra.com/category/podcast/) - [Coaching for Directors](https://johnpoelstra.com/coach/) - [About](https://johnpoelstra.com/about/) # [Embrace The Present](https://johnpoelstra.com/full-embrace/) U2 in Seattle 2011–Get your phone out of my face How often do we lose out on the present moment by trying to preserve it for later? I think we often lose twice–we miss out on the present moment by trying to preserve it, and then the quality of what we preserved doesn’t turn out to be that great anyway. I saw this at a U2 in concert last year. [Mitch Joel saw it at a Van Hallen concert](http://www.twistimage.com/blog/archives/this-is-being-recorded-by-you) . > Instead of the usual [Zippo](http://www.zippo.com/) > lighters raised fist-pumping high in the air, that flame was replaced by the glow of smartphones. Snapping pictures, capturing videos, texting friends, tweeting and updating our [Facebook](http://www.facebook.com/mitchjoel) > timelines. Instead of rocking out to ‘Running With The Devil’, the majority of people in the audience were recording, capturing and publishing the moment instead of soaking in the sweat of the rock n’ roll and raising a cold one with some friends. General admission tickets got my wife and I closer to Bono and the stage than I ever dreamed of–no more than 30 yards away. While I loved the concert and the experience of seeing U2 live, it was irritating to have multiple iPhones blocking my view. I’m of average height and was amazingly close to the stage, and yet I couldn’t get a clear view most of the time. I think the guy next to me recorded almost the entire show on his iPhone–but [was he really there](https://johnpoelstra.com/2010/12/presently-somewhere-else/) ? In my own experience of recording things with video I often find 50% of the moment is lost because my mind is focused on making sure I’m capturing it well. I wonder how much the guy next to me missed out on the full experience because he was trying to preserve it for later? I’d rather buy a professionally released version later and make the most of the moment. Although, not completely connected to this topic, Mitch’s closing was insightful and articulate, > On one hand, we shrill when channels like Facebook make nuanced changes to their terms and service for fear that it will breach our privacy, but on the other hand we are constantly and willfully publishing our each and every move for the world to see in text, images, audio and video. It turns out that our virtual selves are just as confused and complicated as our physical selves. [Photo credit: Me](https://johnpoelstra.com/about/) #### John Poelstra John Poelstra coaches directors in finance and software. Trained through the Co-Active Training Institute, he has coached for more than 10 years, with over 520 clients and 3,150 sessions, including people at well-known Fortune 100 companies. In over 30 years of professional experience, he spent 25 in technology and finance: software testing, project management and team leadership at Red Hat and Dell/EMC, and finance as a bank auditor at Wells Fargo and a CPA at Grant Thornton. He hosts The John Poelstra Show podcast and is based in Portland, Oregon. [Author archive](https://johnpoelstra.com/author/john-poelstra/) [Author website](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-john-poelstra-show/id1130635146) July 11, 2012 [Productivity](https://johnpoelstra.com/category/productivity/) [Previous post](https://johnpoelstra.com/rhel6-usb-sound-too-low/) [Next post](https://johnpoelstra.com/phone-books/) ## 1 Comment ## [Add yours](#respond) 1. Melinda Ma[August 30, 2012 at 8:19 pm](https://johnpoelstra.com/full-embrace/#comment-2132) [Reply](#comment-2132) A strange phenomenon. I had the same thoughts as we were watching the fireworks after a Hollywood Bowl concert. Everyone around us had their phones out recording it and taking pictures, and it was very distracting. What are you going to do with pictures of fireworks anyway? It’s not like you won’t see them again next year! Why are we so obsessed with documenting everything? Maybe so we can post them to our facebook pages and hope our “friends” wish they did something as exciting as we did 😉 [Reply](#comment-2132) ### Leave a Reply [Cancel reply](/full-embrace/#respond) ### John Poelstra [https://johnpoelstra.com/?attachment_id=3756](https://johnpoelstra.com/?attachment_id=3756) ### Work With Me I coach directors in finance and software who want to prioritize, delegate, and lead with clarity. Start with One Conversation, a complimentary 60-minute coaching conversation. 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