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# [25: How to Find Your People](https://johnpoelstra.com/finding-your-people-025/)

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This episode explores the topic of loneliness, some ideas for “finding your people,” and how John found one group of “his people.”

## Mentioned: Books, Podcasts, Etc.

- [The Top Five Regrets of the Dying: A Life Transformed by the Dearly Departing](https://www.amazon.com/Top-Five-Regrets-Dying-Transformed/dp/140194065X/ref=as_li_ss_tl?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1502644912&sr=1-1&keywords=five+regrets+of+the+dying&linkCode=ll1&tag=poelcat-20&linkId=26eb4aa146770a415f5f676bf4471311) by Bronnie Ware
- [Scary Close: Dropping the Act and Finding True Intimacy](https://www.amazon.com/dp/078521318X/) by Donald Miller
- [A Million Miles in a Thousand Years: What I Learned While Editing My Life](http://amzn.to/2fDoS2f) by Donald Miller
- [Life Skills That Matter](https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/life-skills-that-matter-learn-why-self-employment-is/id1180432038?mt=2) with Stephen Warley
- [Unstuckable](https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unstuckable/id852693157?mt=2) with Stephen Warley and Chris Wilson
- [Podcast Movement](http://podcastmovement.com/) (Conference)

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